In His Own Words
About Him
'Selling' your dreams and aspirations seem very difficult this way - the 'who' we see ourselves to be.
We need to accept, forgive, detach, absolve, and undo while also understanding that nothing bad in the past defines us - or our beingness. To remember that nothing of 'then' (past) is the only truth about us.
So we re-write, re-define, re-imagine and believe there is more than then - and we believe this for our own being and dignity, and our right to be who we truly are.
We have a privilege - to live! And you cannot be whole without all the above, and also love inside you. And for that, you need you - yourself. To be grateful that you are and can 'be'.
Just 'be'!
I am a caring person looking for someone to spend 'me' with and would respect someone who will be the same - years after we meet. Let's meet and chat - perhaps we become friends, maybe more. Maybe it's the only way to find out.
There is an unwritten book - "One Book and a Thousand Feelings". It goes deep and it nourishes the soul. It brings warmth to the journey.
Jy het jouself nodig -
om lief te kry,
om te vertrou,
te lewe!
About His Ideal Match
I have definitely been loved and know the awesome feeling! Also that of loving someone. You must be a free and calm spirited person who enjoys things that matter and seem important. I am not prescriptive regarding this, besides harmony, peace and an honest, good sense of being for each other. I will leave it for you to tell me about the colour of your love.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
51 - 64 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 171cm (5' 7.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Other; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Opera |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |