In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a great cook, domesticated, intelligent, with morals, values, ethics and boundaries. I am a lady, girls school, old school. I can be described as refined, with a sunny disposition and a stable personality. I have never been drunk in my life. I have never taken drugs in my life. I have never smoked in my life. I have no tattoos. I am healthy and energetic. I am highly affectionate and warm, but my intimate affections are reserved for my elusive one chosen mate. I will rather wait for the right partner than date all the wrong ones for the sake of what exactly? I enjoy spending quality time with quality people. I am grounded, stable and mature. I do not need to be with someone, but a great friend would be nice to share life with. Most men want to chat. I don’t chat with people I have never met before. So, if you would like to find out more about me, you will need to ask me to meet up over a coffee. I would like to meet and see the person I am speaking with before I ask for or depart with personal info like numbers etc.
I do good by others, but will not allow others to take advantage of me. I am a person of my word. I am experimental, enjoy doing new things. I am spending more time travelling at this stage of my life. I take delight in life in general and I value integrity. I have hobbies and I walk often. I will add value to my chosen mates life and my chosen mate knows he will be able to and have the desire to add value to mine in all aspects of a relationship. A relationship is only constructive when both parties are able and willing to make the other party’s life better with them in it than it was when they were not.
About Her Ideal Match
This man I seek is intelligent, preferably clean shaven, well groomed and knows how to court a lady the way a lady should be courted. I would find an initial meet up appropriate , rather than familiar conversations on the internet with a stranger. If you are finished being single and are looking for your forever partner, it will be a fine starting point. Are you someone who will appreciate that neither you nor I are the people we were twenty years ago? I am not looking for someone twenty years my junior. I would appreciate the same from a prospective partner.
My attraction would be towards a stable, refined, hygienic, gentlemanly person. He has the means to be able to travel abroad occasionally and the health to be able do so. He is seeking a warm loving best friend to have a fun and adventurous rest of his life with. His track record shows he has the ability to manage his life. He understands that love is hard, a thing that you work at constantly and is based upon mutual respect and friendship. He has high values, morals and integrity. He must not be intimidated by a strong woman, but be able to appreciate me, whilst knowing confidently that he is a strong man, but not arrogant or overly conceited or dominating. He has sober habits. He wants to be treated with respect, likes being playful and expects loyalty, integrity and to be cared about and for. He enjoys cuddling and being touched and touching. In this life, being able to find a best friend is a winner... so that first and foremost please. Dealbreakers are loud people, heavy drinkers, men too young, people who use foul language, smokers, men who are seeking to date their children’s age group, people who lack self control. Couch potatoes.
Are you a man who listens before you speak? Do you ask before you tell? Would you make an effort to take me out to interesting places and spend time with me... because you really want to?
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Trendy (I wear whatever's new and now) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Auto repair; Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Sculpting; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Canoeing; Dancesport; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |