In Her Own Words
About Her
Single for a few years and ready for a healthy, real relationship.
I love nature and biodanza, philosophy, cognitive science, mysticism, shamanism, music, psychology and the history of ideas. I like traveling to ancient civilisations and the shrines of Sufi saints and to museums and art galleries. I am free-spirited and unconventional. I work as a counselor, coach and Enneagram teacher. The inner life is my world of work. I love unconventional, wise people who have access to the liminal, poetic and imaginal, and who take inner work very seriously, but also know how to have a lot of spontaneous, wild, crazy, unhinged fun.
About Her Ideal Match
I'd like to meet someone dazzlingly smart, since im a sapiophile.
Whoever you are, i need to be with a paradigm-agile and post-conventional thinker and loves the history of ideas, and poetry, science, art and music.
Sense of humour ... preferably parody, unconventional, meta, dry, offbeat. I am unfortunately neuro-allergic to sarcasm.
Do you love animals and avoid eating them?
Neurodiversity ftw.
Someone who has been to therapy and knows about their wounding and patterns and cares about healing.
Business talk numbs my cerebellum.
Gender and ethnicity dont matter, but im historically 90% hetero.
Either way, strong sexual chemistry is realllly important.
Really, i just want to love and be loved and care for someone's heart and be treated kindly and with respect.
Quite simple, on paper.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Randburg), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
52 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 195cm (6' 4.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a mental condition |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Canoeing; Chess; Dancesport; Hiking; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Snorkeling; Squash; White water rafting |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |