In His Own Words
About Him
Two mutually fully integrated personality profiles define me: A Sigma male and Myers Briggs INTJ.
Sapio-sensual, sapio-sexual.
Yes, so here do be dragons! The nickname is apt.
Just here to find someone that's not into playing games. You're seriously wanting to find a permanent relationship, go the distance for the rest of your life...ready and able, some baggage shows you've lived!...
Jy't hier te doen met 'n (leer my ken en oordeel self) hoogs intelligente introvert tipe persoonlikheid, vol geite maar tog saggeaard en sosiaal aanpasbaar. Sonder 'n sweem van selfvoldaanheid of narsissime.
I do not tolerate prejudice or bigotry. Rather then stay away. This site demands your acquiesce to admitting and accepting things like ethnicity as a necessary-to-join criterion, I make, neither do I respect such demands, nor the asking thereof, from anyone. OTHER means NONE. Get to know me for me, is that too much to ask?
You will always be afforded respect, courtesy and dignity.
Why do here be dragons, you may well ask.
I am a rather gentle "old soul", wouldn't hurt a fly. And this in turn seems to trigger attempts at dominance and control. Really bad, trying that with a Sigma. If you do not know what 'NO' means, best you stay far, very far, away. I say "Yes" to many things, especially to having fun, but my 'No' really means an unequivocal "cease and desist".
I have complete and utter respect for all of humanity, but will not accept being judged by your past failures, quite the most common feature of all here seems to be having to jump hoops and hurdles, demands set because you are insecure as a result of past relationship failures. DON'T.
Let us start getting to know each other afresh, shall we? I am willing, I just hope and trust that you are!
One woman man, you know who you are.
About His Ideal Match
You're able and willing to enter into a serious relationship, not stuck in some rut, still there to live life fully, NOT prepared to go gently into that goodnight .
You're an adult, mature, ŕhave been through the best and the worst, lived. Sapio-sensual, Sapio-sexual, and we're life companions. Just as I gently request above, to learn to know me for me, I shall do the same for and towards you. Get to know you for you. We can do this!
You will notice that I place no importance whatsoever on genetically inherited evolutionary features, do not presume that those would give you an added socio-cultural advantage. If those are important to you, things like tallness, eye colour, the unchangeables, please, move on, it simply means that I don't do prejudice. Evolutionarily, it simply means you chose your gene pool well! Your monkeys, your zoo.
I want to learn and get to know you, for you. Not who you have been judged or taught to be within existing societal norms.
Join me, we can and want to live a full and complete life, trajectories merging, the years remaining intertwined as one.
If the imagery grabs you, makes you curious, well entirely your prerogative...
Aesthetics, your love of Music, Arts, Literature, Philosophy, Reading and especially when you're willing to go outside of your own paradigm, comfort zone; those you will find absolutely attracts me to you.
Break the chains, break the mould and come, as you are, to be with me. A working knowledge of the Kama Sutra will not go amiss... though age will have us skip the occasional heavy callisthenics.
Surely that cannot be too much to ask? Of course, you've read till here, and realise that much of the above is filled with a crazy kind of humour....like I said: Here be dragons.. Please do be gentle...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
George, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
52 - 74 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Forgiveness; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Computer programming; Making Music; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Archery; Chess; Martial arts; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Indian; Japanese; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic; Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
