In His Own Words
About Him
I am seriously looking for a girlfriend. Really.
I am a passionate, rather complex, essentially introverted, professional guy exploring to see if there is life out there.
And so...I have been on this dating site for quite a while - for some reason I simply have not met that special girl.
I am an academic and intellectual snob, by my own admission.
Please note: I live in a Drama-Free Zone.
Oh, and uhm... I can speak Womanese...
Kindly note that I do not log out of the dating site as it is not necessary. That means that I show online 24/7, while it is not like that. I do try, though, to read my messages at least once a day.
About His Ideal Match
I will know when I meet you for coffee or so.
Please understand - if I like what I see and read in your profile, I shall ask you for coffee (please do not interpret that as me "asking for sex" - that is such a generic typical South African interpretation - as if only men "want sex" and sex is something a female "gives to a man" - neither is true).
Having said that: please note: you value physical intimacy as a most important and integral part of a relationship. If you do not value this aspect in a relationship, we will not be a good match.
And no, it is not ALL about that.
You are kind to animals. Always. Always.
Please have medium to longer hair - Be feminine. Very. Be easy on the eye and have soft female energy.
You know yourself - and you are willing to grow, and to explore your boundaries.
You have an opinion. You are intellectually curious and keen to understand complexities and nuances. Mostly, you do not like to conform.
You are both light and dark. You take intense delight at the simple pleasures of life.
You live, work, and play with intention.
You will allow my masculine frame to bring out the best in you, as your feminine energy will bring out the best in me. You will allow me to adore you.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Below Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; French | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
Any | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 194cm (6' 4.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Sports: |
Chess; Fencing; Martial arts; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Very |