In His Own Words
About Him
Why should you get to know me? Why not?
I believe life is best enjoyed with a mix of humor, good energy, and meaningful connections.
I’m big on open communication, I’ll admit, I can overshare at times, so you’ll never have to wonder what’s on my mind. I’m more of a homebody who enjoys the occasional outing. As an introvert, my social battery doesn’t last forever (and yes, I can be a little socially awkward too), but it recharges with laughs, goofiness, and quality time with my closest people and my family (I’m very big on family).
Music is my escape: old-school and neo-soul have my heart, but lately I’ve been adding gospel into the mix. I can’t dance (blame my two left feet), but I keep hope alive!
Not religious but spiritual, in spirituality I find the freedom to relate to God in a way I can understand him and build relationship with him without the doctrine of religion.
I’m looking for someone who complements me, a partner who doesn’t need me but wants me, and values the safe, supportive space we create to grow together.
Let’s see if our core values, lifestyle expectations, and relationship vision align. If they do, we might just be a great match.
A bit of a tech geek, embracing my quirks, I’m happiest with someone who enjoys a balance of depth and lighthearted fun. If that’s you, let’s start with some late-night chats about everything and nothing, or maybe a round of conversation cards to really get to know each other.
About His Ideal Match
“Each of us is an experience; the question is …. are you memorable or forgettable?”
I’m here to get to know you — the real, unfiltered, authentic and playful version. I want to understand your character, your core values, and the unique essence that makes the brand that is you. Let’s peel back those layers together, one at a time, discovering that soul that seeks me just as I seek her.
Over time, I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty of patience…. no rush, no pressure. I believe when we give experiences time, their true nature has space to reveal itself. I may not be overly specific about traits, because for me, it’s about how I am when I’m around you.
Do you bring peace, do we challenge each other to grow, do you have your own dreams and aspirations, how can I help you with it and how can you help me with mine. That’s what matters.
That said, I do value a prayerful woman, someone whose faith shapes her heart, actions, and vision. If your connection to God is something sacred to you, that’s already a beautiful foundation to build from.
If this resonates with you, I hope it sparks a curiosity to connect.
Oh, and one last thing — I’m drawn more to women who are natural, confident, and comfortable in their own skin — as God intended for them.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Sesotho; Tsonga; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 40 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 167cm (5' 5.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Light Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Basketball; Cricket; Martial arts; Rugby; Tennis; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Indian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |