In His Own Words
About Him
I’ll be honest—my “red flags” are that I’m kind, respectful, emotionally stable, and consistent. I don’t raise my voice, I don’t manipulate, and I don’t disappear to create mystery. I open doors, I show affection, I give without keeping score, and I treat women like humans, not trophies. I’m affectionate, love closeness, holding hands, cuddling, and real conversation. I listen. I support. I show up. I’m good with kids and genuinely enjoy them—yours included. I’ve learned that not everyone wants peace, even if they say they do. Some people mistake chaos for chemistry. I don’t. If you’re tired of toxic patterns and ready for something grounded, calm, and real, we might be a great match.
About His Ideal Match
Honesty, depth, and someone who actually shows up. I’m looking for a partner who’s independent but loyal, fun but grounded, passionate about life, and emotionally intelligent. I want real connection, not surface-level games. Someone who values growth, knows who they are, and is ready to build something meaningful — where laughter is constant, support is mutual, and trust is unshakable.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Boksburg (Sunward Park), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 178cm (5' 10.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Motoring; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Meditation; Reading; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Bowling; Chess; Extreme sports; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Horse Riding; Hunting; Motorsport; Pool; Shooting; Squash; Table Tennis; Tennis; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |