In His Own Words
About Him
Friends describe me as calm, caring, and grounded. I value meaningful conversation, emotional awareness, and mutual respect. I enjoy staying active, quiet downtime, learning, and living life with balance, honesty, and resilience, always with a genuine desire for connection.
I choose to hide my photo for a simple reason: I feel a bit uncomfortable on these sites, and I would rather be known for who I am than judged first on appearance. That said, I do take care of myself — I run, train regularly, and live a very active lifestyle. I eat healthily every day and believe in looking after both my body and my mind. I’m comfortable with how I look, but I don’t place appearance above character or connection.
What I truly want is a real friendship that can grow into something deeper — where we can be each other’s safe place without worrying about looks, pressure, or worldly drama. I miss being myself with someone and being able to be vulnerable, while allowing her to be the same with me. I’m not interested in partying or heavy drinking. I value maturity, emotional safety, and meaningful conversation. Whether you’re a parent or not, what matters most to me is trust, connection, and knowing we can feel safe with each other emotionally.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match is emotionally mature, kind, and genuinely sweet. She communicates openly, values mutual respect, and brings calm rather than conflict into a relationship. I don’t place importance on looks — what matters most to me is feeling emotionally safe and being able to offer that same safety in return.
A relationship works for me through trust, consistency, and shared effort. I enjoy simple things like meaningful conversations, quiet time together, and building a steady, supportive connection.
Anger, emotional manipulation, or any form of physical or emotional abuse are absolute deal breakers for me. I’m looking for a peaceful, loving partnership where we can both feel secure, valued, and understood.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Running |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free; Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |