In Her Own Words
About Her
Faith-filled, strong, and a little bit soft where it matters 🤍
Mom first, always. Coffee, bubble baths, deep conversations, and true crime marathons are my vibe.
I love God, I love growth, and I don’t do surface-level.
Looking for a man who’s grounded, kind, and serious about building something real.
If you can pray, communicate, and make me laugh… we’re already off to a good start 😉
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a man who loves God, is emotionally mature, kind, and intentional. Someone who understands commitment, values family, and is ready to build something real—with faith at the center.
If you’re genuine, grounded, and ready for something meaningful, we’ll get along just fine 🤍
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Middelburg, Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Outgoing; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Making Music; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Mountain biking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; German; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Long hair; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |