In His Own Words
About Him
I am a mature, stable, and down-to-earth guy with a curious mind, an athletic build, and a deeply romantic, sensual soul. I consider myself a lifelong student—neat, well-read, and always striving for kindness and self-improvement.
My lifestyle in a snapshot: The Great Outdoors: Traveling, discovering new sights, and star-gazing in the countryside.
Culture & Media: Big fan of 80s music, art, and movies (where I prefer to keep my drama restricted to movies.
Food & Wine: You won't find me in pubs or loud bars, but I love sharing a glass of Chardonnay or Shiraz in a tranquil setting, trying great restaurants, or cooking up a feast over a braai for close friends.
At my core, I am an incredibly affectionate, tactile person who expresses love through touch and presence. I am the kind of man who loves beach walks, cuddling around a crackling fire in a cozy forest cabin, and wrapping my partner in a warm embrace. I bring a calm, debonair energy to life, but with plenty of romantic spark, passion, and fire for the woman who holds my heart
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for a single, attractive, and balanced lady who is comfortable in her own skin. Kindness, sincerity, and a sweet presence mean everything to me...
The woman who will truly resonate with me is Passionate & Affectionate....Someone who thrives on physical touch, deep chemistry, and spontaneous hugs. I am weak in the knees for a woman who wraps her arms around me from behind, and I naturally love to reciprocate with total devotion.
Authentic & Confident in her femininity, honest about what she wants, and looking for a natural connection where no one has to change to please the other. A no-drama lady who Appreciates a low-maintenance, respectful relationship built on genuine compatibility.
If you are looking for a sharp mind, a deeply affectionate heart, and a true partner for life's adventures, let’s have a coffee and chat..
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 49 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 167cm (5' 5.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Arabic; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; English; German; Japanese; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish; Urdu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Honesty: |
Very |