In Her Own Words
About Her
As the song goes, That's what friends are for...
I'm a good friend, a good listener, encourager.Christian environmentalist.
Putting oneself out here is a bit like going into a clothing shop... Looking for the best item available...
To the 30-40 year olds you are not age appropriate. I am a proud mother of a son and daughter in those age groups and have step parented others, I have enough parenting there.
For various reasons I don't go across the colour line in opposite gender close relationships. I'm also not a rich widow, but comfortably taken care of by my family and Gods grace. Live a simple life, enjoy the simplicity of life. I wont sponge on anyone. Life is about give and take. Best to get all that out of the way. That's me. I dont beat about the bush.
Not sure if many take time to read a profile properly. One should, if you are genuinely looking for the possibility of a suitable person. Sad there are so many single lonely hearts but they dont quite fit do they? Or do we really know what we want or need?
I'm a nurturer , whether it be people , animals or plants, I take care of them, feed them. My door is always open if someone needs a chat and tea or something more nourishing for body and soul .
Rest for your soul(sole) in my happy place with wide views and a bit of English country garden as much as nature will allow here.
Occasionally like to cook for a crowd. Celebrate special occasions. Enjoy a glass of wine, watching the sunset, the stillness and wonder of Father Gods creation...He is my peace and security in this troubled world.
I'm not looking for a casual fling, a one night stand, occasional bed partner...
My faith values are strong in that area and I honour My Heavenly Father in this way. I respect and love myself enough to wait for the right person.
Marriage is a covenant between two people and God, not to be taken lightly. And in that kind of relationship, there are all the benefits..
But for now a friend would be good, we can enjoy the adventure of getting to know each other..
About Her Ideal Match
Someone genuinely looking for a friend, to support and encourage each other. Someone who Enjoys nature, an occasional outing to a show, a dinner or in a group activity. Hopefully he'll enjoy cooking, chatting over a glass of wine, and cats, my 7 rescues go for walks in the surrounding bush, so maybe he will too. An active Christian would be a bonus. Friend, let's journey together.... Message me if you think we'll match..
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Zambia | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Lanseria), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Gauteng; North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 189cm (6' 2.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History; Mystery; Religious; Romance |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |