In His Own Words
About Him
Because I'm worth it! ;-)
The Perfect WOMAN does not exist. I am by no means the perfect MAN , but I try TO GET BETTER at this every single day.
I am INTENSE , and often hyperfocus on things.
I am DIRECT & HONEST, so you will know where you stand.
Proficient in technology GENERALLY.
Intelligent, interesting and a BOHEMIAN extraordinaire.
I know what I want and will pursue it VIGOROUSLY .
Afrikaans speaker yet sufficiently bilingual to be judged natively English.
I don't care what you look like (or think you do), I want to engage with your mind and I am here to find someone exceptional, whom I can admire and adore as an important, indispensable complement of me. I believe in equality between the sexes with recognition of personal abilities, ie we contribute what we can, and appreciate what the other contributes to supplement our personal shortcomings.
I like sex (like most people I guess) and cannot deny it… so it will happen, yes, when due... It is an important part of a balanced relationship and should NEVER be a game or a barter tool.
I cry a lot, about all kinds of things... it makes me stronger.
I am fierce and dangerous, yet I have conquered my SHADOW and use its energy to SERVE and PROTECT.
Other interests include birding, mushroom foraging and cultivation, bonsai, the fine arts, music and food. Medicinal use of foraged & cultivated flora. I would rather cook on a fire than a stove, even though I am accomplished on same....
DISCLAIMERS:
1. The profile photo is not recent about 4 years old just the last photo of me in uniform... recents are in the balance.
2. If you wonder why my town changes often: I commute between Someset West and Sedgefield, and plan to move to the Garden Route full time eventually.
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking for someone who isn't defined by the world we live in but rather by the individual they are. Someone who is BRAVE and yet sometimes feels very SMALL, and in need of comfort and protection. Comfortable in their own space and tolerant of my quirks, within reason.
Able to have me time and us time...
Able to have fun without reserve and to laugh from deep inside. Confident, outgoing, be able to see the lighter side of life sometimes.
Some basics are required... moral values, integrity, honesty... values similar to mine... similar goals and interests. You should enjoy the outdoors but also be able to take time out and just veg together, enjoy a tv show sometimes, or just good debate. Be grounded, enjoy spontaneous activity. Be able to laugh at oneself. Not take yourself too seriously. We all have "baggage"... it's impossible to age and not pick up some experiential "battle" scars.
Oh, and here is the standard disclaimer: I enjoy red wine and walking on the beach at sunset and a hot, romantic fire in winter... really I do same as everyone else... My honesty has cost me dearly in the past, but it is non negotiable.
Not looking for someone to do my washing, the dishes, or the cleaning in the (our) house. I can do that and believe these things are shared responsibilities. The short version is I want a normal woman with an interest in life that acknowledges that everything can't be perfect, and see those imperfections as the stuff that gives flavour to the mundane. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... an equal, a partner, a lover, a friend: my Battle Queen. I am fierce but I don't bite...
If I COMMIT to you, I expect COMPLETE and UTTER RECIPROCITY . No ifs and buts... I have been cheated on and I shall NOT tolerate it ever again.
Looking forward to stand in Awe of your Special Powers, so that I may ADMIRE you as my QUEEN, and SERVE you as your KING and
WE will be AMAZING!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sedgefield (I commute between Somerset West and Sedgefield.), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
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Female | ||
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35 - 55 | ||
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