In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a total homebody who believes that life’s best moments are found in the simple joys of staying in and savoring life’s little pleasures. Gardening is my therapy—I love nurturing plants and watching them flourish, much like how I hope to nurture a meaningful relationship. When I’m not in my garden, you’ll find me in the kitchen, experimenting with new recipes, putting together a hearty meal, or whipping up a decadent chocolate dessert. I have a soft spot for red wine and a perfectly grilled BBQ meal—ideally shared with someone special or a few friends.
I don't mind socializing as long as I can do it in the comfort of my own home and I love catering for people. I believe great food brings people together and nothing makes me happier than preparing a great meal for a group of friends.
I value traditional relationships built on trust, mutual respect, and shared dreams. I’m looking for someone who appreciates a warm, stable home and finds joy in the little things, just like I do. I’m someone who finds comfort and joy in the sanctuary of home. The outside world is overwhelming to me as I am agoraphobic, but within these walls, I’ve cultivated a life full of love, laughter, and creativity. My garden is my haven—a place where I nurture everything from tomatoes to wildflowers (and occasionally talk to my plants, but they don't seem to mind!).
Cooking is my way of connecting with the world in my own way—think hearty soups, decadent pastries, or quirky fusion dishes. I’m a little eccentric and proud of it—whether it’s talking to my cats, organizing my spice rack alphabetically, or having an impromptu dance party in the kitchen. I hope to find someone who appreciates these eccentricities and maybe even has a few of their own!
Hobbies & Interests:
Gardening: My hands are happiest in the dirt, coaxing life from the soil.
Cooking: I find joy in creating meals that make people smile—bonus points if you love being a taste-tester!
Reading: Cozy mysteries, cookbooks, and anything that sparks my curiosity.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m searching for someone kind, patient, and understanding—someone who values loyalty, honesty, and the beauty of a slow-paced life. If you enjoy deep conversations over a glass of wine, appreciate a well-cooked meal, and don’t mind a life centered on home comforts, we could be a great match. If you are someone who likes adventure, hunting, fishing or anything outside, I will not hold you back to enjoys these things. But you must be understanding and accepting of the fact that I will not be able to enjoy these things with you.
I love finding comfort in everyday things: reading a great book, cooking a warm meal, tending to my plants, or simply enjoying a quiet evening. Though I may not venture far outside, I am deeply connected to the world around me, whether through online gaming communities, creative hobbies, or meaningful conversations.
Patience and understanding are important to me, and I’m looking for someone who respects my need for a calm, home-centered life. If you appreciate the quiet moments and value deep, thoughtful connections, we might be a perfect match.
Let’s Connect If:
You’re a kind soul who enjoys the comforts of home and is looking for a partner who will cherish and support you. I may not enjoy big crowds or grand adventures, but I’ll make sure every moment we spend together feels special.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Potchefstroom, North-West, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Meditation; Reading; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Greek; Italian; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
