In His Own Words
About Him
Just wanted to check in with you and hopefully we can find the way to complete each other. I'm very busy with work and not great with life balance....but I really want to find my lid…
Ek het die afgelope 7+ jaar gefokus op die enkel pa ding en werk. My werk neem dan meeste van my fokus en tyd. Ek sal nou nie verklaar dat ek uitblink met my lewensbalans nie…eintlik heeltemal die teenoorgestelde!
MAAR….ek probeer die baie groot skip effens draai…sodat ek meer tyd (Of begin tyd) met vriende/ander spandeer en ook my BESTE vriend ontmoet! MAAR ek kry dit nog GLAD nie reg nie...Social Life is nie iets wat regtig bestaan op die oomblik nie...MAAR...ek weet dit en werk daaraan...
Ek glo die Here sal die regte persoon oor my pad bring....OP die REGTE tyd....want ek het maar my eie uitdagings en dinge (en nie balans nie).
Die binne-mooi is vir my belangriker as buite 'mooi'….WANT…wanneer ons oud raak en Newton in skop…by MY en jou (Wat natuurlik NOOIT sal gebeur nie :-)….moet ons nogsteeds verlief wees…vir memaar mooi wees…en beste pelle wees…!
Ek kan nie dans om my lewe te red nie! Maar ek kan projekte, Excel, Outlook soos min..
Roadtrips….net ons self wees…niks fake…nie daar om mekaar te impress…maar om ons self wees...dit is waarna ek soek..indien ons ontmoet gaan ek seker plakkies, shorts en t-shirt aantrek...met geen grimering nie...
Ek gaan seker nie opspring en ontmoet vir n date nie…want ek moet die sosiale gewoontes weer aanleer…klink vreeslik dramaties…maar ek het onlangs met een van my tieners se OT geleer…jy het n emmer….en jy moet besef wat die emmer volmaak en jou uitput…en besef wat ook die emmer kan leegmaak en jou recharge…..in my beskeie opinie…is my emmer van met mense wees baie vol…want ek werk die heeltyd met hulle…so ek moet my emmer leeg kry…voor ons twee ontmoet…
So…sien jy kans vir die skip wat (veronderstel is) besig is om stadig te draai…mekaar te leer ken…en van daar af te vat…
My kinders is in Gr 11 en die ander het matriek klaar gemaak die jaar...FYI :-)...
About His Ideal Match
Hopefully someone that is looking for the same....find happiness and love.... enjoy chatting and hopefully be the answer to each other and for each other.....
Ek Glo die regte persoon is daar buite vir my....my beste vriend...iemand wat geduld gaan he met my en my social spiere wat nie bestaan nie...
Iemand wat gelukkig sal wees om op die bank te sit en tv kyk of boek lees indien ek ure moet in sit...maar hopelik kan ek my balans help leer vind met jou...?
Iemand in wie se skoot my kop lekker pas om net myself te laat gaan en 'oop' te wees...en iemand wat mooi in my arms pas...
Ek wil jou ontmoet vir die regte redes...en tyd saam spandeer vir dieselfde...
Hopelik het jy genoeg tasse wat leeg is vir my bagasie...en ek sal moet seker maak ek het n paar wat leeg is vir jou...want ons almal het ons stories....bagasie...issues...dinge...st ories...ens...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Stellenberg), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 208cm (6' 9.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Gospel / Religious; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Religious; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Cricket; Pool; Rugby; Swimming; Walking; Windsurfing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Pub Grub; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |