In His Own Words
About Him
I’m 44, introverted by nature but full of passion once I open up. I love a peaceful life — quiet mornings, quality time, meaningful conversations.
My interests: photography, working with my hands (there’s real satisfaction in building or fixing something), and simply being with the people I love.
I’m here for something serious. Someone to share life with, not just moments. If you value calm, loyalty, and heart — we might just fit.
About His Ideal Match
My perfect match? Someone who’s genuine, kind, and has a calm energy that feels like home. She doesn’t need to be the loudest in the room — just someone who values real connection, loyalty, and the little things that make life beautiful.
If she loves quiet mornings, meaningful conversations, and can laugh at life’s quirks, she’ll have my full attention. Bonus points if she enjoys creativity, can appreciate good photography, or likes the idea of us building or fixing things together (or at least cheering me on while I do 😉).
Most of all, I’m looking for a partner to share life with — the slow Sundays, the exciting adventures, and everything in between. Someone who wants to be loved deeply, and isn’t afraid to give that love back.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Upington, Northern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Agriculture | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Northern Cape (North) (Northern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 49 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional; Regular; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Investing; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Extremely |