In Her Own Words
About Her
I am brutally honest, speak my truth, polite and caring at the same time.
People say that I am incredibly thoughtful, kind, positive and loving.
Travelling locally and more internationally in the future is a bucket list item, so is firing a gun (hopefully not at you), driving a fast car, really fast and travelling to Italy, Turkey and Croatia.
Work life balance is really important, so i try and plan a couple of local weekends away to enjoy nature and the quiet. Definitely able to do spontaneous things to, and I don't take more than 30 minutes to get ready.
Witty sense of humor and love to laugh. Not a couch potato. Have two adult children not living with me, work full day, love my job. Loyal and very dedicated. I enjoy entertaining, cooking and gardening brings me much delight. I am an avid bird watcher, don't mind getting my hands dirty in the soil planting things.
Hobbies include photography, music (most sorts), spending time outdoors, walking/hiking, new to freshwater fishing. I have never been camping, but willing to give it a try.
Have some baggage but totally manageable – given myself enough time to heal and reflect.
I’m not here to play games, I am not plastic, I am not perfect and don’t expect you to be – just be real. Dont do drugs, dont smoke and drink the occasional glass of wine.
And lastly, this seems to be a big thing of this sight – I am not a stick creature, but not obese. I have womanly curves in the right places.
I believe that I am loving, kind, compassionate and sensual.
Communication, Care, Compassion & Compromise works well for me. All my photos are current - 2025, with no filters.
About Her Ideal Match
A gentleman will be a pleasant surprise, someone with manners, who is family-orientated, however not living in each other’s pockets.
Hopefully have an active mind and body, not grumpy and sitting on the stoep drinking coffee/tea the whole day or a couch potato.
A sense of humor and able to laugh at himself. Someone who enjoys nature, travelling, music and quiet evenings at home and painting the town red on occasion. Well groomed, good breath and teeth (no need to be a thoroughbred horse though). Intelligence, able to save, care about the universe and its creatures.
Financially secure would be great - I am not looking for a sugar Daddy. Money is not everything. It's the small things that make the difference to me.
Not too fussy about your hair color or lack thereof, nice eyes, neat hands and wear a well fitted pair of jeans earns you extra points.
Confident, positive and polite and someone who believes once he has found his match, that trust, respect and clear communication is key, not afraid to show me emotional intelligence and affection.
Please provide up to date photos without sunglasses over your eyes. Sjoe that's quite a lot of demands. Lol.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Harfield Village), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") - 193cm (6' 4.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading |
Sports: |
Fishing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |