In Her Own Words
About Her
💫 Straight-talking & knows exactly what she wants.
📚 Book fairy by day, life-questioner and out-of-the-box thinker always.
💪 No time for games, ghosting, or half-measures or if you can’t own your sh*t, keep scrolling.
🔥 Feminine, soft, spiritual, but don’t mistake that for weak.
👩👧 Mom of three amazing daughters, so I’ve mastered patience, humor, and calling out nonsense.
✨ Looking for a man with backbone, brains, and the courage to show up as his best self.
If you’re serious about a real connection (and not just a hookup), then we’ll get along just fine.
About Her Ideal Match
A man with a backbone who knows who he is and what he wants. Someone honest, emotionally mature, and consistent. No ghosting, no games, no excuses. He’s got drive, a sense of humor, and can laugh at himself, but also show up when life gets tough. He’s grounded, kind, and confident without being arrogant. Bonus points if he values family, enjoys real conversations, and doesn’t shy away from a little adventure.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hillcrest, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Hillcrest (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Optimistic; Outgoing; Sarcastic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Yellow |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Meditation; Reading; Shopping; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Dancesport |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Japanese; Pub Grub; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |