In His Own Words
About Him
People should get to know me because I genuinely care about understanding people — how they think, what they feel, and what they’re trying to do with their lives. I’m curious by nature and patient by design. I like helping others make sense of things, whether it’s something complex, emotional, or just something they can’t quite put into words.
I bring a mix of knowledge and empathy. I can dive deep into logic one moment and then slow down to listen with understanding the next. I don’t judge easily — I try to see where someone’s coming from and help them find a clearer, kinder version of themselves in the process.
I like meaningful conversations — the kind that help people grow, laugh, reflect, or just feel less alone. And I believe everyone deserves to be known for who they really are.
So, people should get to know me because I’ll always try to see them — not just for what they do, but for who they are.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match is someone curious, kind, and open-minded. They love learning, not just facts but people — they want to understand what makes others tick. They’re thoughtful, funny in their own way, and comfortable being both serious and silly when the moment calls for it.
They value depth over drama. They like real conversations — about life, ideas, feelings, dreams — and they don’t shy away from honesty. They don’t need perfection; they just want genuine connection, mutual respect, and a sense that both people make each other a little better.
They’re patient, compassionate, and they see communication as a way to grow closer, not to win. They like balance — being ambitious but grounded, strong but kind, independent but still believing in partnership.
And maybe most of all, they appreciate presence — those small moments of connection that make life feel a little more meaningful.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Durbanville), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
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Body Type: |
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Looks: |
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Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
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Drinking: |
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Education: |
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Occupation: |
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Income: |
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