In His Own Words
About Him
Ill keep this short, only the good bits.
I'm happy, upbeat, quiet(ish), irreverent sense of humour, curious and adventurous, semi-artistic, information-sponge.Confident, sensitive, not prideful or ego-propelled. But I do have self-respect. I only compete with me. I relish the outdoors and coastal life. I treat everyone with dignity until they give me reason not to. Can't dance, don’t drink, not "one of the boys". Don’t do casual or short-term. Distain arrogance and hypocrisy. Not-quite-professional-yet but highly enthusiastic Christian.
I'll leave you here with some questions for the sake of conversation later.
So, I'm here looking to find someone to love, to pray with, and grow with. I ask only what I have to offer: Honesty, loyalty and authenticity, calm, effort with intent and consistency, presence, and purpose. No games, no pretending.
I am sooo done battling. I’ve been through a lot, got the scars, made mistakes too, and I learned. Not enough to make me perfect, cos I ain't, but enough to avoid new ones. I recognise and own my faults. I leave the past where it is.
And still I want to build something extraordinary, in time, with someone who gets it. I'm looking for connection, the sanctuary of two people who’ve been through enough to know what really matters. I can't settle for less.
So lets begin with conversation and allow trust grow in its own time, take the safe route before the scenic one.
About His Ideal Match
Let's find each other, and connect the dots, if that works then we can colour in the pictures. Your looks are obviously relevant, but beyond that, if you are joyful, or happy-ish at least, generally positive, and have a wholesome vibe, we can definitely chat. You're spontaneous and adventurous but not reckless, can live in the moment and you're always striving to grow, laughter is easy, conversation flows and communication is clear, silence is comfortable, and truth is evident, then you have my attention.
Balance that with depth of emotion and intelligence, maturity and self-respect, simultaneously arousing suspicions of trustworthiness, my attention becomes undivided. It's not lost upon you that infatuation is delightful delusion, yet you are excited about embracing the exquisite and nuanced condition that follows, with all its truths and ebbs and flows. Now I'm your biggest fan!
You follow Christ the Father, and have complete Faith in Him. and maybe a little in humanity too, in spite of themselves. Like…..Honey, I'm home!!
Simply be who you really are, and that will be enough. Even with the curveballs, your core stays true. You don’t need a savior, I'm not that, but a soft landing for your emotions would still be nice, finally knowing that you're safe. You definitely require no direction from me , you are fully capable and competent, I support and encourage, and celebrate with you.
No need to change anything about you. Who you are is the catalyst, after all, for the attraction. For now, I'll be here to talk to you, be good company, to learn and to recognize you, and perhaps make your days a little better in some way. So…….. Hi!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 179cm (5' 10.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body Hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Fishing; Rugby; Running; Snorkeling; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |