In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m driven, independent, and I like my life to have direction—but I also know how to switch off and enjoy the moment. I’ve built a life I enjoy, with meaningful work, good friendships, and a home that I genuinely love spending time in.
I’m sociable and enjoy being out, but I’m just as happy at home with my own interests or sharing quiet, comfortable time with the right person. I don’t need constant attention—I value presence over noise, and I think there’s something underrated about companionable silence.
I’m affectionate, grounded, and emotionally aware. I appreciate depth, good energy, and someone who can match me—not just keep up. My friendships are important to me, and I believe a healthy relationship makes space for both shared and individual lives.
About Her Ideal Match
A man (49–55) who knows who he is and moves through life with quiet confidence and inner strength. You’re self-sufficient, emotionally intelligent, and comfortable in your own skin—able to connect with a wide range of people, and not afraid to laugh at yourself along the way.
You’re expressive, articulate, and open with your affection. I value someone who isn’t hesitant to show how they feel—whether that’s in private or a simple moment of connection out in the world.
You have your own life—your friends, your interests—and you respect that I have mine too. There’s a natural balance between time together and time apart, without pressure or expectation.
I’m drawn to someone who can enjoy both sides of life—dancing the night away occasionally, but just as content with a quiet evening in. Someone who values friendships, connection, and shared experiences, but also appreciates stillness and ease.
Romance matters to me—not in grand gestures, but in the small, thoughtful things. A note on the fridge, a spontaneous message, the kind of everyday moments that show genuine care.
Ultimately, I’m looking for something real, balanced, and meaningful—with someone who appreciates me for who I am: strong-minded, grounded, and genuine.
If this resonates, I’d love to hear from you.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Parklands North), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
49 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; None (Bald); Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Camping; Cricket; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |