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About Him
We’re a deeply bonded, married poly couple looking for a woman who believes love grows best when life is lived with purpose and intention.
He’s 52—steady, grounded, quietly confident, with a calm strength that feels safe and reassuring.
She’s 49—bi, warm, affectionate, and emotionally present, with a softness and depth that invites real connection.
What we share is ease, passion, laughter, and a bond built slowly—never rushed, never forced.
Our home is a private 4-hectare sanctuary where self-sufficiency isn’t a trend, it’s a conscious choice. A river flows through our land, nourishing our gardens, our animals, and our sense of peace. We live fully off-grid, generating our own power and growing much of our own food, creating a life that feels intentional and free. We also enjoy a few comforts—reliable internet, a heated pool, and quiet evenings that naturally invite closeness.
We raise goats, sheep, cows, chickens, turkeys, fallow deer, and ostriches, and recently built a dam stocked with fish from our river. Life here is simple, rich, and deeply connected—to the land and to each other.
We’re hoping to meet a woman who shares similar values: sustainability, self-sufficiency, emotional honesty, and a desire to build something real. Someone who enjoys slow mornings, deep conversations, gentle affection, and the idea of growing into a loving throuple where trust, care, and desire unfold naturally over time.
If a quieter life, nature, animals, and intentional connection speak to you, we’d love to get to know you. No pressure—just curiosity, warmth, and possibility.
About His Ideal Match
If you love the outdoors piece and quite, enjoy animals and all that comes with a homestead please make contact.
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South Africa | |
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Koppies (Benoni), Free State, South Africa | |
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53 | |
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Leo | |
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