In His Own Words
About Him
So here you are, Welcome. Let me be honest right from the start: I’m looking for a partner who knows what she wants. Honesty, no ifs or buts, is a must. Let’s put all that nonsense aside—we’re here because things didn’t go as planned. I’m looking for a reliable partner who also knows how to appreciate the little things in life. You have kids? Fine, no problem. I can’t replace their father, but I can be a good friend to them. I enjoy long conversations over a glass of wine or beer. My interests are varied, and I have plenty to talk about. Sometimes it’s enough to just do nothing and simply enjoy life. So if you’re still reading this, good—I took the time to fill out my profile as accurately as possible. What you see is what you get. There’s no point in putting on a show—in a few weeks or months, we’ll know who we really are anyway. So let’s save ourselves the disappointment if you’re not really interested. But if you do want to get to know me, I look forward to hearing from you. I definitely won’t rush things. Now I’m looking forward to your message.
About His Ideal Match
My perfect match is someone who meets me with kindness, emotional stability, and genuine respect, supportive of my goals, secure in your own identity, and committed to growth.
Values: honesty, empathy, and shared core values like integrity, compassion, and life vision. Make me laugh and take life not soooo serious.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Ballito, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
German | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Instrumental; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Darts; Table Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |