In Her Own Words
About Her
Pushing 40, still single, and apparently surviving just fine—though my mother disagrees. I'm either exceptionally picky or just really good at dodging red flags. Gainfully employed, occasionally witty, and armed with a dangerously dry sense of humour. I talk to plants, but only because they don't ghost me. Whiskey is cheaper than therapy, and I've perfected the art of laughing at my own jokes. If nothing else, I'll keep you entertained while we both question our life choices.
About Her Ideal Match
Looking for someone who's survived life without becoming insufferable. Bonus points if you're emotionally available, can laugh through the chaos, and appreciate humour as a survival skill. I'd rather build something real than collect another entertaining disaster story.
What Her Friends Say
Koji hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 186cm (6' 1.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Woodworking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Honesty: |
Very |

