In Her Own Words
About Her
58 and still chasing wonder — I love a good conversation that makes time disappear, coffee that turns into a long walk, and little adventures that leave you smiling. Mountains and grueling bike rides? I’ll cheer you on from the café. Scenic streets, hidden cafés, and laughter along the way? Count me in.
I treasure experiences over things, independence over ego, and friendship as the foundation for love that lasts. My passport’s always nearby, a mischievous smile not far behind, and a few charmingly mispronounced foreign phrases ready to keep you on your toes.
Let’s find joy in the little things… and maybe a few magical surprises along the way.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m drawn to a man who shows care through his actions rather than just words, who values kindness over ego, and who embraces laughter over drama.
Someone who can make me laugh, and effortlessly switch from deep, meaningful conversations to ridiculous, silly jokes. I admire a man who handles life’s curveballs with a grin, who is authentic, confident yet humble, and who lets his eyes tell the story — sunglasses-only pics need not apply.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Irene), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
149cm (4' 10.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
57 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") - 197cm (6' 5.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Hebrew; Italian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Opera |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; History; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |






