In His Own Words
About Him
eople should get to know me because I bring a mix of depth, resilience, and real-world capability that’s not easy to find in one person 🙂 I’m not someone who just talks about ideas, I’m someone who builds, fixes, and carries responsibility in a practical way. I operate in environments that demand both clear thinking and steady action, and that balance shapes who I am. There’s more to me than what’s visible at first, and I think that mystery makes getting to know me worthwhile.
I understand pressure. I’ve faced financial strain, family conflict, and the weight of providing for others, and I’ve had to keep moving forward anyway. That’s given me a grounded perspective. People don’t just get surface-level conversation with me, they get someone who understands what real life looks like when things aren’t easy. That quiet strength tends to build trust naturally.
At the same time, I’m deeply relational... I value loyalty, honesty, and meaningful connection, especially as a father and partner. I show up, I think things through, and I’m willing to grow, even when it’s uncomfortable. That willingness to reflect and improve is real.
I’m also someone who builds, whether it’s systems, opportunities, or stability. I focus on creating things that last and prefer moving toward solutions rather than staying stuck in problems.
And just to balance things out, I’m a bit of a nerd 😄 I enjoy gaming, board games, good food, and I’m a Lions rugby supporter and Liverpool fan ⚽ I like fishing, movies, series, reading when I can, camping, DIY, comic books, collecting, and exploring different interests.
Getting to know me means being around someone real, capable, and grounded
About His Ideal Match
I’ve realised I’m actually quite simple when it comes to a relationship hey… I just want something real and steady 😊 someone who’s properly all in, not just when it’s easy or behind the scenes, but openly and consistently
I’m the kind of guy who shows up, I give, I build, I support… so I need someone who meets me there too, not perfect, just consistent, honest, and able to stand with me without all the drama or outside pressure
I don’t need constant fixing or proving anything, I just want someone who chooses me properly, and we build something solid together
I’ve also learned I don’t do well with uncertainty or mixed signals… and I can't read minds... I need something clear and grounded, where we both know where we stand and we’re not second guessing things all the time
At the end of the day, I think I just want someone who’s real, calm, and emotionally steady… someone who’s actually in it with me, not halfway, not unsure… just there, fully
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Robertsham), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Rugby; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |