In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m the type of woman who will flirt with you, laugh with you, support you, and probably become your favourite notification 😉 Also… I give very good attention to people I like ❤️
I’m feisty, a little sarcastic, affectionate when I like you, and dangerously good at catching feelings for good conversation. I'm calm energy, playful teasing, and the kind of attention that might spoil you if you behave 😌 or misbehave 😋
I like consistency, honesty, and a man who can actually keep up with me — mentally.
My outlook on life is simple: I want peace, growth, and real connection… and maybe a little chemistry that makes things interesting.
Spicy 🌶, flirty, sarcastic, music lover🎶
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is a confident, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to show it 😉 Someone consistent, affectionate, and protective, but also funny enough to make me laugh when I’m trying to be serious. I love a man who communicates well, plans real dates, and puts effort into building something meaningful instead of playing games.
He should be respectful, ambitious, and grounded, with a soft side he only shows to the right person. Good hygiene, good style, and good energy are definitely a bonus 😌
Most importantly, he should be intentional, loyal, and able to match my vibe — a little flirting, deep conversation, and chemistry that feels natural but undeniable ❤️
I like "my man" tall 😋 sexy confident and attentive.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Venda | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sesotho; Tsonga; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 53 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; None (Bald); Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Brown; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Mild; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
TV Habits: |
My TV is never off |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Documentary; Horror; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Athletics; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Indian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Have): |
Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |