In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a calm, loving person who enjoys good food, deep conversations, and peaceful moments. I care deeply about the people in my life and I’m always growing into a better version of myself. I know who I am and what I want, so I value honesty, consistency, and respect. I believe in giving the same love I want to receive I’m thoughtful, and I love expressing affection in meaningful ways, including gifts and small gestures.
I’m looking for something real with someone who’s intentional and mature.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for someone kind, honest, and emotionally mature. Someone who knows what they want, communicates well, and values consistency and respect. I appreciate calm, positive energy, and I won’t lie, I love a generous man who enjoys giving, thoughtful gifts, and surprises. I’m here for something real, not just passing time.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
East London (Vincent), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape; KwaZulu-Natal; Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 80 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
177cm (5' 9.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Arabic; Dutch; English; French; German | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Arabic; Dutch; English; French; German | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant |
Music Preferences: |
Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Educational; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Meditation; Shopping; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Fishing; Golf; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |








